Life is full of moments. Some are exciting, some are so-so, and some are tough. Disappointment is a fact of life, and in many situations, there’s little or nothing you can do to control the outcomes.
The main issue is learning how to cope because dealing with disappointment effectively will give you the strength and resilience to go on and live life again rather than passively waiting for it to pass.
Here are three things to consider after facing disappointment.
Suffering is tough, but suffering alone is excruciating. Find someone who can be with you during your tough moments. If someone who cares about you reaches out to offer support, don’t tell them, “I’m fine.” Instead say, “thank you. This means a lot to me.”
Sometimes you may want to turn to professional support, like a therapist. A therapist can offer a different layer of support and help you with the process you’re going through. Either way, don’t isolate yourself.
Don’t run away from the disappointment. If you suffered a loss of any sort, acknowledge it. Whatever it was, if it bothers you that it didn’t turn out the way you had wanted, allow yourself to be with that emotion and experience. Ultimately, this will allow you to integrate what you’re going through and continue life from a healthy place.
When the time is right, think about your future. Actually, plan your future and get at it. Dealing with disappointment isn’t only about the actual disappointment but also taking it with you to and moving along in life. You may have learned some important lessons from it. There may be some amazing memories there. These can all guide you in your future decisions by providing you with wisdom, experience, and maturity in a new way. Just don’t get stuck in the past.
How have you dealt with disappointment?
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